Do/Don't Essay

 Don't take another mans seat it will piss them off Open the door for a girl offer her your seat.

Never on the first day of high school try to fit in with popular kids. Go for the kids that look like outcasts those groups are easy going never forget a hackey sack kids join in all the time. Dont

 forget to brush your hair don't forget to shower and don't wear to much spray. Don't think that the first girl who talks to you is flirting she is probably just being nice. Don't go for the first girl you see that you think is cute either because you will most likely regret it there's probably a cuter one that comes along never make your self look hard it's kinda stupid just be very mellow and don't flip out over stupid stuff don't try to be someone your not just be you and eventually you will fit in to some were. I think people are just to worried about what other people are going to say about there appearance the best advice I could give someone is if there happy with there appearance then nothing else matters. People who judge are the worst people they get happy from you getting upset. Sometimes they don't understand the name calling probably hurts the worst but  usually it's trying to fit in that sucks I feel if your you that's all you can be don't be a thug if your not don't be a anything if your not stay true to you Say you really like certain music someone else says they hate your music well Blair it till yours ears bleed I think it's how you look at it I think it is all about how your prospective on it is.

For example I was hiding behind a skater look because I was scared as hell of the judgement but when I put those boots and pants on I feel like myself again and I think that's all that matters is that you stay true to yourself I was always so worried about how I needed to fit in what I needed to buy to look like everybody else when really all I like is my boots jeans and a shirt I feel very comfortable in my clothes now I don't have to sag my pants I'm comfortable respected happy and don't take crap from anyone and my be you will laugh at the way I live but I'd rather go back to my emery county roots than to be someone I'm not yes I am country I do have long hair country isn't about the short hair it's about workin hard bailin hay when needed a lot of muddin four wheel drives gun racks bucks in the bed of the old trucks and Bon fires that's my life wake up at 5:00 with the sun go to work all day five days a week then the weekends mud puddles boots friends girls in the daisy dukes and lots of music little guitar playin campin go out smellin like a fire best smell in the world haha well if you can't live that way I don't no a better one to live I have lived a variety of lifestyles skater hippy thug you name it but I found I fit in right here with the country it makes me happy and its time to be me that's one thing I miss about home is it was laid back every one new you you weren't a number in the society you were family to everyone there is no place I'd rather be than down home in emery county you may think I'm weird but I'll tell you what there's nothin better than watchin a country sunset or walkin on the river bank  ha I was right people did go and start talkin bout how I "changed" naw man I didn't change I just went back to how I have always been. it all started September 23 1995 born in slc raised in nephi ut until about seven moved to vernal until I turned 13 moved to another small town At the age of fifteen ha emery county home of the Spartans rednecks and rodeo hell that was the best man every weekend me and my friends hit the desert for the weekend light the bomb fire kick back hell man if you don't no bout that then your really missin out I guess I just went back to the real me I was always worried about how to fit in turns out country is all I really no now maybe y'all don't no bout that life but it's real fun nothin like huntin and fishin runnin through the river with friends taken the truck and four wheelers through the river mud up to the doors  throw it in four low in the old chev and slowly crawl right on through Man that's one thing I never regret is being me I have turned into one good guy maybe someone can accept all of this for who I really am haha I'm sure someday I'm very satisfied with who I am it hurt today this girl callin me fake ha you no why I tried to fit in and it didn't get me anywhere so I start bein me naw sweet heart make sure you no who you are before you point that dirty finger of yours at me. That's another thing I "Hate" people who are two faced sayin that don't fit you you are fake  some times I wanna look at them and say your one to talk go look in the mirror clean your face up and shut the hell up I'm happy as me and I ain't hiding no more so  Don't tell me how to live I'm me that's who I will always be and you can't change that so please don't judge but Even if you do it doesn't hurt me ha it only shows your true colors and probably your insecurities to so I don't really no it's all about how you think about it If you were in the other persons shoes and had to deal with what there dealing with don't treat them poorly because they might be the only person when you have your breakdown that will listen that's one quality I do have I'm a friend a shoulder to cry on and I'm always there some people claim to be and there not for example I rolled my truck about a year ago ya I was high I was bein stupid but the point is I called the one person who was at my house I thought he would come my "best friend" ya right he said he was to tired so I said ok I called my dad at this time dad was workin non stop graveyards he was runnin on an hour of sleep but he started the old truck came and picked my dumb self up from buckhorn draw didn't scream just said are you ok son he kept asking if I was hurt over and over I said I was just tired but dad drove me another 40 miles to price hospital paid for my Ex Rays and made us I was ok the next day we go up and went out to get my truck it's an old truck but it was fine just had a dent in the side haha we pulled it up flipped it over started right up we went home fixed the truck dad said don't worry bout payin me back just make sure your ok and that  meant most to me dad never got mad we fixed the truck up got all the dents out made it better than it was before I rolled it we stayed up the next few nights he was off work we made the truck run real good I think that's one thing I can say about my dad no matter how much trouble I'm in he always helps me out never disowned me he has always had my back I am so glad I have him ha he isn't a millionaire but he makes sure we have everything we need no matter what  I look up to him he's always worked his butt off for our family and has never taken a short cut I think the example my dad has set for me is what I really strive to be is a man that has valuable skills to help himself to succeed. No matter what job I get if I get laid off I have skills to succeed into another career most kids give up after so long because they don't think they can succeed so instead of driving on and trying they just give up I'm great full that I'm not like that If the Going gets tough buckle up and keep Going Cause there is sure to be smoother sailing on the way I've  thought sometimes that it would just be easier to give up on things but if I give up then I loose out on what might be my future whether it be a girl or a job so I just need to drive on there is always opportunity for me If I keep moving on I've made leaps and bounds I used to be so deep in that hole I didn't see the end of the tunnel now I'm on track to graduate my family is on my side 100% and so are all my friends and when I'm done you bet your ass I'm goin muddin haha desert life to live 77 Chevy 6" Inch lift Supers swampers with 4 twelve inch subs cruising through my small town ha when I roll through they will no I'm throwing a party man I may be country but I no how to party haha  until you have experienced that big Bon fire those 12 gauge shotguns shooting gallon jugs just to watch them explode man just talkin bout it makes me get excited Two things you can count on from me one I'm always there two you get stuck in that truck I'll pull ha out after I finish laughing my guts out cause you bragged up your truck haha so I think I'm Johnny cash I think I'm willie Nelson I think I'm hank Williams I thing I'm Waylon Jennings I keep it country man haha make sure before you act up you make sure your Respecting the women That's one thing I hate is you decide to make a mistake then when she finds out you whine about it begging for forgiveness one more chance wa wa wa  quite cryin man up treat a women with respect she isn't your dam rug she ain't your dog if you hurt her she ain't gonna wanna just here your apology and call it good friend cause if you apologize make sure you mean it prove it to her of just by words but by your actions they don't like a whining baby as there boy friend so shut up man up and make sure you respect your women maybe she will love you more if ha show her that you love her sure it's sometimes hard but It's not meant to be easy man I takes two to tango  I was taught if a women hits your you either 1 stand there and take it or 2 run like hell. Any man who hits a women deserves to be knocked out and that's how I feel same with cheaters man I hate them all well that's all my do's and donts