Let me tell you the best kept secret about relationships. It's easy if you make it easy. The two hardest things are compromise. Opposite sexes naturally butt heads, a lot of it had to do with competitive behavior. The second hardest thing is honesty. Being honest to someone you love is one of the hardest things to do.
I've collected a brief list of do's and don'ts about relationships in reference to what guys should and shouldn't do.
Do: stock up on chocolate and tampons. These are two necessities for women, and the chocolate, can help after a fight. There are many benefits to these two items.
Don't: tell your girl to calm down. This will create the opposite effect almost immediately, sometimes resulting in shoes or objects being thrown at your head resulting in a black eye for a job interview.
Do: tell your girl you love her constantly. It's not about the money, it's time and heart. Show her you love her with complements, hugs, kisses, And sweet whispered words.
Don't: talk about past relationships. This will flare jealousy and anxiety in your girl and could start an argument you will most definitely lose.
Do: let her win simple arguments. It will keep her confidence up and keep her loving towards you. Be prepared to back down when necessary and stand up when inevitable.
Don't: bring up anything about her eating habits or weight. Women are already self-conscious, so by bringing up anything whatsoever about her looks will make her shy away or cause unhealthy habits.
Do: attempt to do stereotypical chores around the house every once in awhile. Make dinner, do the laundry, wipe down the counters etc... These are signs that you care, and will most definitely reward you by doing them.
But for the love of everything good and holy in this world, don't mess with your girl when it's her time of month. We are already flooded with a million emotions at once! Don't create even more unnecessary emotions. Relationships are phases or a phase in your life but can be easy with these hints.
10 comments:
I absolutelty love this! Everything you said that they should and shouldn't do was perfect! The bad part though is only us girls see this. Boys just don't get it! There so frustrating.
I agree with the whole thing. Because in a relationship it's easy to use the other person, but if your smart you'll think to yourself, do I want to be used? All a relationship needs is trust, honesty, love, and RESPECT. There the best things that will help you in your relationships weather it's with friends, boyfriend, girlfriend, or even family. I should now Im still working on my relationships with my family, and it's not easy, but Im getting through it.
Thanks for the tips on relationships with women. I really believe that you should treat them with respect and you should always love them for who they are! I also think when it's that time of month you should be extra good. Hey, this is the most informative do/don't that can possibly be applied to most everyone. A perfect ten score, very good.
I relally like this! At first I though a guy wrote this, but I knew it was too good to be true.
It's definantly an amazing thing to keep a girls confidence up. When a girl is happy, then you must be happy because that's a great thing to be happy about. I really like this.
I also wrote mine on the do's and don't's of relationships. This is a really good list. I've had experience with the last one. It ended badly. We aren't talking to each other and we haven't talked since ninth grade.
I really agree with you. Chocolate really works after a fight or whip cream. Haha
I mean who doesn't like chocolate? Lol
I can take quite a bit of information from this.Thankyou because sadly I know little to none about relationships.Pluss you put it in simple steps I could just read and fallow.
I like this a lot. I've had experiences with most of the do's and don't's. This list is absolutely true and it will definitely help.
Aspen, I liked how you made it simple enough, that even guys like me, could understand it. I used to do all this stuff for girls but I conformed in society and became snarky and disrespecting to girls and guys alike. I started pushing people away recently trying to sever all the ties of my friends and family. Now I wallow in my own guilt and shame wondering why I'm doing this. So now with your do and don't list I'll be able to hold down a relationship longer than a week. Thanks for writing this and keep on being your good old happy self.
Aspen, as a young man who is working oh so hard on becoming a gentleman I took a lot from this. Thank you.
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