Well my favorite mistake is cheating on my ex she was like my first love. I loved her so much and I treated her so badly and took her for granted she was so supportive of me. She was the queen of my world and now she gone because I was a bad boyfriend. Well we met at 15 practice she was a dama and I was a chambelon I walked in and I fell I love she was so beautiful. She told me everything I was the only person who she told but her parents would hit her and I always was there to take her away from her problems. She had bruises and I saw them all but I was the one to make it better. We were gonna run away and live together and have a family I promised I would never hit her and I never did she saved my life and she was my life.
So we were together for about 3 months I used to be a soccer assistant and we went to her school. I went up to her and hugged her and kissed her like I always did than she asked me flat out are you cheating on me. I lied and said no than she believed me but I was I was flirting with girls left and right so me and her walked around. We were just playing soccer I would rap to her she always loved my music. Than I left her and the next day was our 4th and I went to her she asked me again are you cheating on me again I said no that's how it was .
So my friend Aldo and I was walking to my friends house than I got a text it was my girl. Than she says it's over than I tell her no and she says she can't be with me no more. So what I do is tell her to call me so I can hear her say it. She does and tells me than I start crying I front of Aldo and than she asked my why am I crying. I told her because I loved her and she said I love you to but I can't be with you. She hangs up than that was my first time hippy flipping because I needed something to numb the pain so I turned to drugs.
So basically what I'm trying to say is don't take the people you love for granted. The only people who do are damned be faithful to the person you love. Because you don't know what they will find out if your not. Look at me I became a drug addict and now I'm barley getting sober I learned from what I did I'm just telling you the truth before you find out yourself don't be selfish because you'll be alone and never have love.
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I like how even though you were the one that messed up you didn't let it ruin your life yeah you did drugs and shit but your sober now and are learning how to live a new lifestyle and be a better person most people mess up with the same problem over and over I think you learned your lesson and it made you a better person because of it stay up man
I personally think this story is good! I can relate to this because I used to have a girl who at first I wasn't really into. Even though she was treated me good I still went behind her to talk to other girls and hangout with them. Later on she confronted me about me about it and I denied it. She eventually found out the truth and called me through the phone and I STILL lied about it! She couldn't take the lies anymore and ended it with me. The whole situation upset me and somehow it got to me. I stared to feel bad about what I did and now I learned if you're going to be with someone it's either you stay faithful or stay single so I really liked this story.
I feel bad man. I have cheated on a girl that I really like too. She had cheated on me though and I felt as though it was fair. She didn't agree and she broke up with me. I pleaded and she just said no. I know how it feels to feel lost and that's I think you felt.
I believe that relationships.Well being in love.Is he hardest thing anyone can overcome.Mabey that could be the definition of why life is crappy.All any normal human can do is forgive,remember,and move on.
Victor,
I like that you have changed from that experience. It sounds awful and miserable! I'Ve never experienced that, but I imagine it would've been sucky. I admire your prespective on people you love. It is so true! Don't take them For granted! :)
Dang Victor, I didn't realize that happened to you in your life. I understand the situation that you went through and hope that you learned from your mistakes. I least now you're making up for last time. Keep on writing.
That's a good saying I like it! You should never take anybody you love for granted! You should also be faithful in a relationship it can be hard but that's part of life is overcoming the hard things. I'm still overcoming hard things in my life but that's not going to stop me from being a better person. All I'm trying to say is if you're in a relationship you should stay committed and never lie.
I think it's awesome that you realize the people you love are important in that way. I know it was a hard lesson to learn, but now you'll appreciate those you love more than most people do. You felt bad for cheating too, so that's probably not a frequency in your relationships anymore either.
Victor that really sucks and that is why this lesson has to be the easiest and the hardest to learn. That's why I choose to stay away from love, it's the greatest killer emotionally. With me,no matter how much I think I'll love them, I'm like my dad, I'll only end up hurting them more then loving them.Violence is in my blood. So the only way to keep myself from hurting anybody is to keep my distance. I don't want to hurt anybody. So I'm not going to take any chances. Not all this applies to you but this is my life story in six sentences and I hope it gives you confidence to keep on trying to find someone you'll be with forever. Don't give up Victor!!!
Sincerely
Andrew "Droobie" Terry
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